Sex With Emily

Let’s face it: casual sex often gets a bad rap. It’s thought of as just another swipe, a fleeting moment, a reflection of society’s current hookup culture, or something disposable. But hold up! It doesn't have to be that way. When you bring a little intention and mindfulness into the mix, casual sex can be the spark that reignites your erotic energy. In my opinion, the secret sauce is all about knowing yourself and being crystal clear about what you want from your casual encounters. This episode, I’ll be teaching you how to dive into casual sex with purpose and channel your inner Samantha Jones.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

All the different types of casual sex out there

How to know if casual sex is right for you (because it isn’t for everyone!) 

When it’s best to turn down a potential partner


Show Notes:

Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!

7 Myths of Non Monogamy

Friends With Benefits: A Guide


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Today I had the pleasure of talking to the “Scientific Carrie Bradshaw”, a.k.a Amy Chan, the revolutionary mind behind Renew Breakup Bootcamp, to talk about all things relationship. We chat about how her heartbreak helped in creating Breakup Bootcamp, why being present during dates is hard but necessary, and why dating outside of your comfort zone might be the key to finding the one. If you’re sick of swiping left and tolerating toxicity, this one’s for you.
In this episode you’ll learn: 

How to measure your chemistry compass 

Why it’s important to date that short person (even if they aren’t exactly your type!)

How to spot the “green flags” in a relationship


Show Notes:

Attend Dating Bootcamp! 


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Eager to transform your hottest sexual fantasy into reality? Then today’s throwback Ask Emily show is for you! I'll be taking calls about fantasies and offering concrete tips on how to actualize them. However, it's essential to recognize that this journey is a blend of creativity and strategy. You must embrace your sensual desires, visualize intensely passionate — and perhaps even forbidden — scenarios, and explore what genuinely excites you! Lucky for you, I’ve given you tips on how to do just that. Right this way for some sexy self-discovery…
In this episode you’ll learn: 

How to go about finding a “third” if your partner’s been hinting at cuckolding

The 411 on play parties (and how to stay safe if you go to one!)

What to do if you’ve been craving a sexual fantasy, but your imagination’s been letting you down


Show Notes:

The Yes, No, Maybe List

Fetlife

Feeld

#Open


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It’s my favorite month of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s throwback show, I’m honoring the month of self-love and giving you a brief history of the celebration, the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys and lubes for bringing you pleasure this May and all year long.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

What to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator

Why masturbation can help you have orgasms during sex with your partner

Signs that you’re masturbating too much


Show Notes:

Mutual Masturbation Guide

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Today, I continue my conversation with my friend, YouTube personality, public speaker, and author Matthew Hussey. We chat about his latest book, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily No Matter What, Matthew’s texting skills, and why it’s best to follow your path and not your feelings. And if you were wondering about the texting cliffhanger from Part 1, it’s answered in today’s show. Enjoy!
In this episode you’ll learn: 

Why “avoiders” can be more of a red flag in relationships than liars

When to make things work and when it's not worth it

Why speaking your truth is sexy


Show Notes:

Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1

Matthew’s New Book: Love Life


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